No
matter what the situation is, leaving a good impression is something we all
want right? Or at least, not leave a bad impression, especially to people we
just met or when you're meeting you lecturers/boss/new friends/DATE. If you
search on google, there is virtually endless links, telling you a thousand and
one way to look good so you can leave a good impression. Most of them either
cost a bomb, or just way too complicated to even get started.
From
personal experience and the complexity of it, I've fine tuned the easiest and
FOOL PROOF methods to leave a good and lasting impression.
1 :
Dress well
At
first glance, many people go like, “ummm, hello, this one no need to say also
kow lah.” But in real life situations, you’ll be surprised how many people will
say that they know but still dress like crap. Why dress well? For the simple
reason your body takes up 80% of your body,(if you get what I mean) and by
dressing well, you just show that you are well put together.
While
I’m no style guru, for starters, no shorts, apparels ironed, NO SLIPPERS OR BIRKENSTOCK(hell to the
no). Besides, what’s wrong with looking good right?
2 :
Clean Hair
Maybe
it’s my personal pet peeve, but what’s worst than messy hair, is dirty hair.
And if you think you can hide your 5-days-unwashed-hair in a bun, trust me, we
know. The problem with dirty hair is that it’ll look frizzy, oily
and clumpy, and if you have long hair, it is GAME OVER. The moment you turn
your head and the hair swings. … .. …… The smell will be the smell of the
century.
Also,
the feeling of oily scalp just makes your whole body uncomfortable. And trying
to conceal the smell by dousing your hair in perfume will just make it smell
even worst. So make sure you have clean washed hair! It gives it a nice shine
and the feeling of clean hair, is just a good thing.
3 :
Smell good
Kind
of the same point as the previous one, but take a shower before you step out of
the house, and if you’re feeling fancy, spritz on a little bit of perfume or
lotion up. That really helps, I remember reading somewhere where they say over
anything, people’s strongest impression of you is based on how you smell.
And
with that said, when it comes to smelling good, complete the whole package,
which includes oral hygiene too! Brush your teeth to show those pearly whites.
4 :
Smile and nod
Smile
and look pleasant, easy to say, hard af to do, I know. This is especially
important if you’re interacting with new people or bosses. If they’re talking
LOOK IN THEIR EYES AND NOD. Even though you’re not even slightly interested in
what they are saying, always nod and from time to time vocally agree.
This
will make them think you’re engaged in what they are saying. Try to look
pleasant while doing this, and not stare and judge à silently judge can lah.
Most
importantly, NEVER look at them halfway and drift off, looking at your phone on
social media. That is the worst thing next to not paying attention at all. When
you do this, it like telling the person ‘Oi, I tried to be engaged, but you’re boring
af, shut up thanks.’
5. Remember their names
Not
the most important, but something nice you can do. Just remember their name
until they leave, so at least when you guys can bye you can say “BYE (NAME),”,
and not like an idiot and like “bye bye/zai jian,” and then stare then don’t
know what to do.
But
if you really can’t remember, follow the ghetto route to solve things. Just go ‘Bye Gurl,’ most of the time, that works as
well as remembering their names.
The whole point is to establish a sense of closeness so if you ever bump each
other in public or need their help it wouldn’t be a contemplating and mentally
vexing task.
Well,
the above tips is useless if you have a shit personality, but these are the top
5 foolproof methods to leave a good impression, from looking the part to
walking the walk.
Bye Gurl.
Bye Gurl.
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